In fact, studies show that children who are spanked are more likely to use physical force against peers and later against their own children. And I don't mean their job. How to stop using spanking If you are a parent, or plan to be a parent, who wants to learn to not use spanking, HERE is a place for resources to help you. If you instead treat your child like a dumb animal that is destined for evil, guess what you get? Shaking a baby or toddler The same goes even more emphatically for shaking a baby or toddler.
But it's an important tool for teaching children what behavior is acceptable and what behavior is not. I remember vividly the very occasional spankings that my siblings and I received; but I don't remember the reason for a single one of them. Are kids spanked because they act out or do they act out because they are spanked—or both? The fact that the perpetrator of this violence is a famous person gains our attention because it is "news. Follow us on social media. Nigerian-Americans are on a path to become one of the most successful immigrant groups in American history. Or will just make it to elementary school without poisoning or garroting themselves or their siblings.
Teething can also have an effect on behavior. That really stood out as a powerful lesson of humility and pardon. He doesn't know where it goes! Spanking denies children the chance to learn alternative ways of dealing with anger and frustration. A child should always receive a clear warning before any offense that might merit a spanking and understand why they are receiving this disciplinary action.
It would help if you did not use all capital letters when making your point. And to make it even more challenging, none of our kids come with an instruction manual attached. Well maybe if you took some Submitted by Blurryface on July 30, - 2: Make good on any promises of discipline or else you risk undermining your authority. Spanking is the panacea of sorts then, I suppose. That is all such absolute bullshit!! Simply put, prevention is easier than cure.